OBSERVATIONS OF LIFE SITUATIONS THAT EVOKE QUESTIONS AND RESPONSES

Living in a nuclear family is a more a trend thees days but i was lucky enough to live with my grandparents and regardless of the bookish knowladge they have given me a lot in every step and on every stage of life they are my first and true teachers. What ever i am today i am because of them. They gave me a character full of moral values. Nobody could have trained me like they have. I don't think i can imagine even a day without them.

But there are always times which show you the worst side of the life, same happened with mean year ago. My grandfather was going through some dental problems, everyone was cool with it as dental issues at the age of 85 is considered normal. It was about 6 months there was no betterment in the tooth so we deecided to change the doctor. On 27th October we went to a dotor in Greater Noida with all his exray's and thta doctor told us that he is suffering from oral cancer and that too last stage. When i heard all that i didn't know how to react. I felt as everything is over and actually everything was over for me. I was all blank I could just see my father crying and at that time my grandfather did not know about all these things as he was in some other room so we had to act normally in front of him which was soo difficult as I could not stop tears rolling down my cheeks.

When we came back  home I was all shattered I locked myself in the room and cried till the time I felt easy. My grandfather called me and said,”I know I am suffering from cancer but that’s okay, my life has not end yet and even if it does it’s okay I have lived for 85 years and I have earned everything love , respect dignity and happiness years of age”. It gave me a positive energy and I thought not sit back and cry but do whatever I can do for him since that day I was for him day and night. While all this was happening I thought that nobody can tell us what would happen next second. For us everything changed in just seconds. And now all we could do is to deal with them and face them.

And moreover my grandfather is a person who has never drank or smoked so it was a bit shocking for us it made me think a lot.

·       Initially I thought that why am I the only person with whom all this is happening

·       Why is god giving us such a difficult time

·       When will my family get to normal

·       Why does my grandfather has to suffer soo much

All these things forced me to think a lot but the only option we had, was to be strong and face the bad times. It has been one year now and by the grace of god everything is fine and my data is leading a happy healthy life. I wish to see him healthy for now and forever .